Friday, September 21, 2007

Girl with Too Many Books

I'm headed to Chicago tonight, and here's the stack of books I'm cramming into my carry-on:

Marci Alboher's One Person/Multiple Careers: How "The Slash Effect" Can Work for You - because I embrace the slash and Marci has a ton to teach me (and because Marci is EXCELLENT on "a new model for work/life success")

Naomi Wolf's The End of America: Letter to a Young Patriot - because I'm perpetually freaked by the direction our country seems headed

Susan Falud's, Stiffed - because I want to finally finish this one before I start her next

Barbara Ehrenreich's The Hearts of Men - because Lori said I should, and because Barbara never lets me down.

I had never met anyone who tries to bring more books than I do for a short weekend, until I met Marco. Haven't yet seen what he's bringing, but I'm betting it's more than four. I'm guessing neither of us gets much reading done, since we'll be busy repenting, eating brisket, and schmoozing with family. But the security of bringing books, anyway, runs deep!

Beauty Skin Deep

So it's Fashion Week in London, and I just had to post this photo appearing in the New York Times cause I love me a cute hat. Meanwhile back in Kansas, as the Style section also reports, women are apparently flocking to get a not-yet-FDA-approved anti-fat injection called lipodissolve. Scary, because:
Neither the drug formula used in lipodissolve nor the method of treatment is standardized. And researchers disagree whether the shots eliminate fat cells, or merely liquefy fat so that it shifts around in the body, raising the possibility of long-term consequences such as the aggravation of heart disease.
Reminds me of that terrifying finding (which I first learned about in Courtney's book) that showed survey respondents preferring thinness to long life. Ugh. Obsession with hats far safer than obsession with fat.

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Testosterone Day at the Mommy Blogs

Just heard via PunditMom that the bloggers over at sister sites DC Metro Moms, Silicon Valley Moms, and Chicago Moms all turned over the blog reins to the dads for a day. So the dads were blogging about the challenges as dads raising kids -- and about the challenges of being the spouses of mommybloggers. Hehe.

Meanwhile, speaking of sperm, over at feministing, Courtney Martin offers some very wise musings on that book I mentioned here a few weeks ago cleverly titled Sperm Counts. Miss C and I had fun "writing" together today (meaning, parallel play on our respective projects between chats) and caught up on everything over our respective cookies. Man, I just love that girl.

Sally Field UNCENSORED



As many know by now, Sally Field’s acceptance speech at the Emmys this week recognized the mothers of U.S. troops. She ended her speech with, "Let's face it: If the mothers ruled the world, there would be no [CUT TO SILENCE BY FOX CENSORS]."

The rest of line was this: "...goddamn wars in the first place."

I found it rather satisfying to watch the uncensored version, here. Try it. You'll see what I mean.

(The embedded video from YouTube in this post is the CENSORED version. Thank you, Jeff, for the clarification!)

45th Carnival of Feminists Now Up

The 45th Carnival of Feminists is now up over at Feminist Philosophers. For those of you still wondering what a carnival is, do check this one out. The philosophes have nailed it with a fabulous round-up of links from around the feminist blogosphere.

GWP Welcomes Newest Guest Blogger!

Many of you know "Marco" as the dude I refer to now and again, the one who sends me links and clips, comes to every last one of my readings, and made me my shiny GWP logo. Well, he's emerging from the shadows. I'm thrilled to introduce him, officially, as a Guest Blogger here on GWP. Keep an eye out soon for his occasional posts! He'll be offering his own observations on popular reality, in particular, myths about masculinity and boyhood, and he'll also throw in on my favorite subjects here of course: feminism personal, political, and in public.

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Ready for a Female POTUS?

OMG - if the video below doesn't work (trying to figure it out...) go here and hit play! Hit it!

Groovy Vibrations

Courtesy of Marco (always lookin out for me, that one!) comes this YouTube retrobite in which Moses Znaimer interviews Gloria Steinem in 1968 about being a "groovy chick" and an ex-Playboy bunny. Highlights:

Znaimer to Steinem: "You've been described as a chick with a good sense of the vibrations."

Steinem on reporting circa 1968: "To report with compassion is important now, because we've been so inundated by the statistics."

Life Magazine to Steinem: "We want a writer, not a girl.'"

Znaimer on Playboy Bunnydom: "I thought you had to be stacked to be a bunny girl."

Steinem to Znaimer: "A lot of that is plastic dry cleaner bags, really."

P.S. I just started a category called "feminist history." Were you there? Got pics to share? You send 'em, I'll post 'em!

(Photo credit)

Peace Monkey

Ok, I rarely do this (and don't think I don't have a damn cute cat), but I'm animal blogging. According to an article in the Daily Mail,
The 12-week-old macaque - who was abandoned by his mother - was close to death when it was rescued on Neilingding Island, in Goangdong Province. After being taken to an animal hospital his health began to improve but he seemed spiritless - until he developed a friendship with a white pigeon. The blossoming relationship helped to revive the macaque who has developed a new lease of life, say staff at the sanctuary.

Now the unlikely duo are never far from each other's side, but they aren't the only ones to strike up an unusual friendship. Earlier this year a pig adopted a tiger cub and raised him along with her piglets because his mother couldn't feed him. And in 2005 a baby dear named Mi-Lu befriended lurcher Geoffrey at the Knowsley Animal Park in Merseyside after she was rejected by her mother.

And who says we can't all get along? This one's for you, Mom, to brighten your day.

CUT, the movie

Wendy Schneider just sent me word of her new documentary, CUT: Teens and Self Injury. The film looks like a much-needed resource in schools, and Wendy is currently seeking a distributor. CUT premiered at the Wisconsin Film Festival in Madison this week. Do check out this glowing review in the Isthmus. Ah, the Isthmus: A paper I once placed a personal ad in during the dark lonely days of grad school only to be answered by someone with whom a friend had already tried to set me up. Total non sequitor there -- I blame the chocolate hangover. Anyway, Wendy is setting off on a college screening tour in a few weeks. For those of you on campuses, keep an eye out for this film! More on it all on this MySpace page. Good luck, Wendy, and do keep us posted!

Conference Envy

The amazing Samhita over at feministing will be live blogging from the Web of Change conference, an annual gathering connecting folks working at the convergence of online strategy, technology, and social change. It's held at a place called Hollyhock Center (left), on Cortes Island. Rumors of a hot tub on the beach. Um, how do I score an invitation to that next year?!

What Can We Learn from YouTube?


First of all, I'm here to report that there is such a thing as a chocolate hangover.

Second, check out the news about this course that Pitzer College media studies professor and documentary filmmaker Alexandra Juhasz is teaching on YouTube. Literally. The course's subject? The popular role of YouTube!

Class members control most of the class content and YouTube watchers from around the world are encouraged to comment. Mainstream media coverage is all "you're kidding--college credit for watching YouTube?" But if you ask me, it's an incredibly innovative venture. I'm eager to see where this leads.

To check out the course and join the conversation, click here. Juhasz is blogging about it all at Media Praxis, a project she's developing for Mediacommons, where interesting commentary on the project is also underway.

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Post-KGB Chocolate High...

Just got home from a post-reading chocolate fest at Max Brenner's with Lauren Sandler, Nona W-A, and Marco. I think I'm going to be up all night. I highly recommend ordering mass quantities of chocolate fondue after you read. Assuming you don't have to be anywhere early the next morning. Is there such thing as a chocolate hangover? I guess I'll soon find out.

(Thank you, Kelley McMasters and KGB bar, for organizing the reading tonight, and thank you, Sassy girls Kara Jesella and Marisa Meltzer, for your fabulous book! And big shout out to Lauren and Nona for coming! Grandma Pearl: this reading was dedicated to YOU.)

Knocked Up and Gettin Hitched

This one comes courtesy of Broadsheet. Apparently, maternity clothing designers are getting hip to the fact that there are (ahem) pregnant brides. I'm not sure if this is another way to glamorize the baby bump in our newly MILF-focused culture, or a long overdue acknowledgment of the fact that weddings and babies don't always happen in that order. Regardless, as an aspirational late-mom who also plans on tying the knot one of these days soon, I'm kind of into it, even though I'd more likely wear a red dress and cowboy boots when the blessed event occurs (the wedding, not the labor).

Anyway, I'm not sure I believe Maternity Bride's survey, which claims that 1 in 6 brides are preggers. Still, nice to know there are options for those who are screwing with the traditional order of things and still want to wear the traditional big white dress.

I Heart Wired Women


Yesterday, after a piece I wrote ("Wired, She Wrote") went live, I received the NICEST emails from a handful of women who have been my bloggy mentors, heros, and connectors these past months. Just wanted to send out a heartfelt shout out to you all -- Amy Tiemann at MojoMom, Cooper Munroe and Emily McKhann at BlogHer and the Motherhood, Andi Buchanan at MotherTalk -- for the amazing work that you do. You inspire me deeply!

And speaking of connecting, I met with Nona Willis-Aronowitz last night over spring rolls and fries. I love her energy. Nona (23-year-old daughter of the much-beloved and recently departed Ellen Willis) is soon to embark on her feminist road trip, as I've mentioned here, and I'm eager to hook her up with wired women far and wide. She needs help finding a diverse swath of women ages 18-25 to interview about their connection to or understanding of feminism, and she's also just looking for folks who are interested in her project and would like to spread word. If this is you, send me an email and I will pass it along to Nona!

Monday, September 17, 2007

More Sounds Off on OUR Hillary Problem

O happy day! At last, an article on Hillary that focuses on our problem, not hers. Well, actually, their problem -- "them" being older, affluent, highly educated women. Younger women seem to be supporting Hillary in droves.

The October issue of More magazine has a great dialogue between veteran political analyst extraordinaire Donna Brazile and Deborah Tannen, linguistics prof and author most recently of You're Wearing THAT? Understanding Mothers and Daughters in Conversation. The two pundits speculate on the age gap that's emerged among Hillary's female supporters (hint: younger women, women with no more than a high school education, working class women, and women of color support her in droves) and ask an important question: Just what is it that ambivalent, older women -- women who say they want to want Hillary but don't -- want to hear?

I remember the comment from a panelist at a political session during BlogHer -- that women Hillary's age feel lesser because Hillary "has it all." (I repeat my reaction: with all due respect, barf.) Brazile says that the older contingent are less excited than the younger gals are about the mere fact that a woman is running. Tannen adds that we always expect more of Mom than we do of Dad. Is that why W has gotten away with what he has? But I digress. Age gap aside, Brazile and Tannen very smartly sound off on the ridiculous double standards imposed on female leaders by men and women alike. This is indeed my own answer whenever I get the question during my readings about what I've come to casually refer to as "Hillary Hate." There is only one of her, and we expect her to be so much.

I'd love to hear others' thoughts, though, about Hill and the age gap. Do tell. Why are younger women seemingly more prone to support her so far, while older affluents are hedging their bets? (And for more, check out TAP's recent article on it all, here.)

Next Reading: Tuesday 9/18 at KGB!

Join Kara Jesella and Marisa Meltzer (HOW SASSY CHANGED MY LIFE: A Love Letter to the Greatest Teen Magazine) and me (SISTERHOOD, INTERRUPTED: From Radical Women to Grrls Gone Wild) tomorrow night for the fall kickoff of KGB Tuesday Night NonFiction!

DETAILS:
KGB Tuesday Night NonFiction
7-9pm, Free!
KGB Bar, 85 East 4th St
kgbbarlit.com

Women Authors: Get Your Tech On

I've been so fortunate these past months to have learned a ton from fellow feminist bloggers - and in the spirit of "see one, do one, teach one," I'm eager to share. So my fall webinar, MAKING IT POP: Translating Your Ideas for Trade, will include a session on how authors can use blogging and new media to spread word about their books, online. Details about the 6-week course, including how to register, are posted here. (All you need in order to take it is an Internet connection and a phone -- I will walk you through the rest! The first session is Nov. 6, 8-9:15pm ET.)

And on a related note, the Women's Media Center recently asked me to write a piece on this issue of authors and new media. The piece is now live. I look forward to your thoughts -- and to working with some of you to "make it pop"!

When Hardball Meets The View...

Last week two of my favorite "career" writers, New York Times career columnist and author of One Person/Multiple Careers Marci Alboher and Cali Williams Yost (of Work+Life Fit blog) joined Eve Tahmincioglu and Feminine Mistake author Leslie Bennetts on the Lime channel of Sirius radio for a conversation about women in the workplace. Karen Salmansohn hosted. You can listen to the podcast here.

Marci (pictured left) also had a great column in the Times the other week on worklife blur, called "Blurring by Choice and Passion." Today, Cali is live-blogging from the Alfred P. Sloan/AWLP Flexibility Retreat out in Park City, Utah. Both Marci and Cali generally pontificate about "work/life" in fresh and interesting ways. If you're looking for new and well-informed thinking on a not-so-new topic, these gals have got the goods.

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Girls Gotta Run


I just learned about this interesting org - The Girls Gotta Run Foundation, Inc. - that raises money to buy athletic shoes for Ethiopian girls to support their participation in sports and help them continue their formal education. The Phoenix Gallery here in Chelsea is hosting a related art exhibit (Girls Gotta Run). Pics posted here. The exhibit runs through September 29.

Saturday, September 15, 2007

GUEST POST: Young, Academic, and Feminist - in Public


Heather Hewett is an Assistant Professor in English and Coordinator of the Women's Studies Program at SUNY-New Paltz, and a freelance journalist to boot. If it weren't for Heather, who sat across from munching salads at Cosi while she finished her dissertation, I never would have finished mine. These days, in addition to organizing conferences, writing WashPo op-eds, and hosting MotherTalk Salons, Heather is mom to a 9-month old and a 4-year old. Here's Heather:

So here’s a question: how much of the desire among many younger academic feminists to reach out to a larger audience is generational, and how much has a much deeper history informed by the goals and visions of the feminist movement?

I write this question as a writer, professor, and scholar (and now, for the first time, blogger!) who has never been able to stop herself from writing for mainstream audiences. As a result, I’ve found myself crossing back and forth, locating myself both in and outside the academy. I’ve learned a lot as I’ve traveled this road, journeying along byways (plus more than a few dead ends) and cultivating skills that aren’t taught in most graduate programs. In order to keep going, I’ve constantly had to hew a vision of myself that includes multiple kinds of writing and interests. An endeavor, I sometimes worry, that isn’t always rewarded in the academic world. As a result, it’s been liberating for me to find other young feminists on this journey and to realize that I’m not traveling solo.

But as much as I might congratulate myself on my own ambition (or castigate myself for my lack of discipline), I have to ask: isn’t this one of feminism’s visions? Doesn’t feminism invite us to think about the relationship of our research to social change, to connect with larger audiences over concerns we all share? Haven’t lots and lots of feminist intellectuals – Betty Friedan, Barbara Ehrenreich, Susan Faludi, Laura Kipnis, to name only a few – done this? (If you haven’t guessed already, this is why I love Girl w/Pen!)

So here is another story (and, I will confess, a bit of a shameless plug). One of the things I love about my current job at SUNY New Paltz is that I help to organize a regular Women’s Studies conference. One of the goals of this conference is to connect feminist scholars and researchers, activists, social workers, teachers, students, and other community members – and the Women’s Studies Program has been putting this together for 28 years. The year of its launch, I was in third grade! I’m a bit awed by this history, and it reminds me that plenty of academic feminists before me have sought to create dialogue and community that transcend the confines of the so-called Ivory Tower.

This year’s conference is entitled “Girlhood: The Challenge and Promise of Growing Up Female.” Our keynote speakers include journalist and Feministing contributor Courtney Martin, Senior UNICEF Adviser Mary Roodkowsky, and SUNY New Paltz students Julliany Lahoz, Cristal Pimentel, and Queen Bond. Workshops and panels will explore girls’ identity, culture, activism, health, education, struggles, and successes in the U.S. and globally. Please check us out – we’re on the Hudson River, only an hour and a half north of New York City. Girls of all ages and those interested in girlhood are invited to attend!

You can contact Heather directly at hewetth AT newpaltz DOT edu

The Return of Dottie and Jane...

So my gal Heather Hewett has been a partner in crime since the days of our joint website, "Dottie and Jane's Adventures Out of Academia." I was Dottie, she Jane. The site was our attempt to learn html while chronicling our escapades in the wilds of NYC during academic furlough. We had a blast. Heather is also the author of that fabulous op-ed in the Wash Post a few weeks ago, about the politics of nannyhood. Keep an eye out for Heather's post here soon... (Welcome back, Jane!)

Friday, September 14, 2007

Join Me for GRRL Night at KGB Kickoff 9/18

Kick off the fall season of KGB Nonfiction on Tuesday, where the Sassy Girls and I will help you get your grrl on while sipping cocktails from the bar (my favorite way to do a reading, I've since discovered)...Here are the details:

DETAILS:
KGB Tuesday Night NonFiction
7-9pm, Free!
KGB Bar, 85 East 4th St
kgbbarlit.com

*** Kara Jesella and Marisa Meltzer (HOW SASSY CHANGED MY LIFE: A Love Letter to the Greatest Teen Magazine) and Deborah Siegel
(SISTERHOOD, INTERRUPTED: From Radical Women to Grrls Gone Wild) read from their work.***

See you there!!

Nona and Emma's Feminist Road Trip Begins in Chicago

More on the young feminist road trip I mentioned briskly in an earlier post. Twenty-three year old writer Nona Willis-Aronowitz (daughter of Ellen Willis, founder of Redstockings, Voice editor, and the New Yorker's first rock critic) is pairing up with Emma Bernstein (daughter of painter and art journal editor Susan Bee -- and niece of my mentor/friend Susan Bernstein) to document what "feminism" means to members of their generation, in words and images. Their book will map the future and acknowledge the past. I'm looking forward to doing whatever I can to help these ladies out - how much do I LOVE this project?!

Thursday, September 13, 2007

Blogging While Academic?


I just learned about MediaCommons, an online community exploring the changing nature of what it means to “publish,” and new forms of digital scholarship and pedagogy. Interesting convo going on over there now about the issue of what blogging and other forms of online publishing “count” for in the academic system of reward. For those of you tenure bound, might want to check it out!

(Thanks to Elizabeth Curtis for the heads up.)

History Hits


From the National Women's History Project's blog, Writing Women Back into History, come these tidbits and reminders:

September includes the anniversaries of Billie Jean King defeating male chauvinist, Bobbie Riggs, on the tennis court in 1973 and Sandra Day O’Connor being sworn in as the first woman to serve on the Supreme Court eight years later. The first weeks of September also include the play-offs for the WNBA.

GREAT hooks for anyone considering writing an op-ed this month!

(Pic is of the tennis dress King wore at the match.)

Britain's Young Feminists


Louise France and Eva Wiseman set it straight, with a piece in the Observer Woman on how younger women's attempts to rebrand feminism 35 years after the launch of Spare Rib magazine. The article begins:

My mother and I are in the pub. I tell her that I'm researching a piece about Britain's young feminists. My mother, who is in her 50s and was inspired by reading Germaine Greer's The Female Eunuch when she was a Seventies housewife, looks astonished. 'But there aren't any,' she says, with the finality of a lid being placed on a saucepan.

F-Word editor Jess McCabe and other young feminists answer the following questions: How did you become a feminist? How are you different from your mum's generation? What are the clichés about feminism? Can you be a feminist and go to a lap-dancing club? What makes you angry? Check out their answers here.

(Thank you, Catherine, for the clarification!! -GWP)

Seeking Editorial Assistance on That Book?


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Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Never-Married Twentysomethings on the Rise


This just in: There's been a sharp increase in never-married twentysomethings in just six years. According to new Census figures released today, almost three-quarters of men and almost two-thirds of women in their 20s in 2006 said they had never been married! As reported in USA Today:
Among men ages 20-29, 73% said they had never been married in 2006, compared with 64% in 2000. For women, 62.2% had never married in 2006, compared with 53.4% six years earlier.

The data also show the percentage of those marrying in their 20s continues to decline. A USA TODAY analysis of the new Census figures shows that just 23.5% of men and 31.5% of women ages 20-29 were married in 2006. (The analysis excludes those who are married but separated.) Both the number and percentage of those in their 20s fell from 2000, when 31.5% of men and 39.5% of women were married.

"These clearly are quite dramatic changes by demographic standards," says demographer Peter Morrison of the non-profit RAND Corp., which studies public policy issues. "The amount of change in six years is quite substantial. It's impressive in terms of the degree to which the institution of marriage is evolving. There clearly is a process of social evolution occurring here, and one can speculate about where it will end."

The trend toward delaying marriage has emerged over several decades as economic and social forces have made it more difficult for those in their 20s to reach independence. Sociologists and demographers say other factors are also at work, including increasing numbers of cohabiting couples, more highly educated women who have fewer highly educated men of comparable age to partner with, and more choices open to women than in decades past.

For those reasons and others, experts say they don't expect this upward trend in the ages for marriage to reverse.

So what are twentysomethings doing instead? For one, as also reported in USA Today, Gen Y is involved. Check it out here.

And finally, twentysomethings Nona Willis-Aronowitz and Emma Bernstein are taking a feminist roadtrip! Read all about it in The Metro. I'm looking forward to meeting with Nona next week.

Ok, I'm headed off to my cousins' for Rosh Hashanah dinner (Mom - I made a killer kugel!) -- I'll be back on GWP tomorrow night!

(Thanks to CCF and Susan Bernstein for the links!)

Women, Girls, Ladies


Marco strikes again, with a hot little logo for our "Women, Girls, Ladies: Join the Conversation" program for Women's History Month this year. (THANK YOU, M!)

The group blog is now open. It'll look prettier, though, very soon :)

Has Soccer Mom Gone Shrew?


A must-read over at Brain, Child magazine: In "Soccer Mom Loses Her Kick," Tracy Mayor asks whether, starved after decades on the sound-bite diet, mothers might get some meat from politicians in '08.

Think moms are apolitical? Think again. Check out these posts from one of my favorite political moms, here, here, and here. And definitely, always, stop by Pundit Mom, MomsRising, and the Mothers Movement Online, too.

(Thanks to Steve Mintz, Stephanie Coontz, and Veronica Arreola for the heads up!)

Susan Faludi and Naomi Wolf on 9/11 Aftermath


Talk about synergy. On the way to my authors group last night, I picked up a copy of Leo Braudy's From Chivalry to Terrorism: War and the Changing Nature of Masculinity. Then I learned that on October 2, feminist superstar Susan Faludi is coming out with a new book called The Terror Dream: Fear and Fantasy in Post-9/11 America. Anyone remember how, following 9/11, media headlines declared women to be suddenly less inclined to be satisfied as single and independent beings? And that another baby boom was apparently bound to occur as women's biological clocks began to tick faster after the tragedy? With what sounds like her hallmark in-depth documentation, Faludi looks at the gendering of cultural response.

The Liberaloc and USA Today have posted excerpts, and here's what I've gleaned (from the book description):
Why, Faldui asks, did our culture respond to an assault against American global dominance with a frenzied summons to restore “traditional” manhood, marriage, and maternity? Why did we react as if the hijackers had targeted not a commercial and military edifice but the family home and nursery?

Faludi shows how an attack fueled by hatred of Western emancipation led us to a regressive fixation on Doris Day womanhood and John Wayne masculinity, with trembling “security moms,” swaggering presidential gunslingers, and the “rescue” of a female soldier cast as a “helpless little girl”? The answer, Faludi finds, lies in a historical anomaly unique to the American experience: the nation that in recent memory has been least vulnerable to domestic attack was forged in traumatizing assaults by nonwhite “barbarians” on town and village. That humiliation lies concealed under a myth of cowboy bluster and feminine frailty, which is reanimated whenever threat and shame looms.

In taking on the subject of American culture in the wake of 9/11, Faludi joins fellow superstar Naomi Wolf, who just came out with The End of America: Letter to a Young Patriot, as I mentioned in a previous post. It seems highly relevant that prominent feminist thinkers are turning their attention to the state of our union--which, according to both, is dangerously unraveling. The threat, they both argue, is not merely external; in the wake of 9/11, the threat to our nation's integrity also comes from within.

I can't wait to get my hands on these two books. More on this to come, for sure.

L'Shannah Tovah / Happy (Jewish) New Year



This is a card I was sent by my friend Stephanie Aaron (of Aaron Design). It's too pretty not to share. Wishing you all the sweetness of apples and honey all the year long!

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Two 9/11 Stories


One for each of our towers.

Kathy Rich, author of the forthcoming book Unspeakable: A Story About India and Life in Other Words and a writer in my authors group, wrote a beautiful, poignant essay for the Modern Love column in Sunday's New York Times. Thank you, Kathy, for giving us your amazing tale.

And my guy Marco has a very astute post up today over at Hokum on the branding of OBL. Ok, so granted, I love the guy (Marco), but I objectively think this post is brilliant. See for yourself - go check it out.

(Photo credit)

Introducing: Womengirlsladies, the Blog

Fellow writers Courtney Martin, Gloria Feldt, Kristal Brent Zook and I have launched, yep, a group blog which we hope will foster some FRESH conversation among intergenerational feminists about what matters: power, work, sex, motherhood, pop culture, the future, and everything in between. Since I temporarily can't figure out how to post over there (doh), I thought I'd make my post live here for the time being. So here it goes:

Sisterhood, UNinterrupted

I'm thrilled to be part of this dialogue. In my head, I confess, I've been calling it "Sisterhood, UNinterrupted," and I feel so fortunate to be working with my fellow womengirlsladies to foster some much-needed cross-generational talk. These wgls inspire the heck outa me. In addition to continuing the conversation I've been having at readings and talks around my book these past few months, the significance this dialogue has for me goes straight to my core. I've worked in the women's movement and in academia for about 15 years now, and, like Courtney, I've watched some pretty rough dynamics play out between women of different generations at work. And I've often felt caught in between -- the confidant of women on both ends of the age spectrum. Old enough to sympathize, young enough to want things to change. Now that I'm working independently, I watch the generational chasm reflected -- or rather, writ large -- in our popular culture. Stereotypes of young women as apolitical bimbos ("Britney, c'est moi!") and Boomer women as bra-burning throwbacks ("Hillary - so out of touch") drive me insane. With so much unfinished business, so much still to be done to ensure that women across ages and classes and races have the opportunity to live safe and full lives, I'm convinced it's time for a different tune.


Check out what Courtney, Gloria, Patti Binder, and others have to say so far over at www.womengirlsladies.blogspot.com. And join the conversation!

In Memorium



And may they long be remembered in our hearts.

Monday, September 10, 2007

My First Vlog!

Here's a preview (practice version?!) of something we prepared for the National Women's Studies Association -- complete with a goofy out-take at the end. (Hint: I cackle.) Thank you, Elizabeth, for leading the way!

Woodhull Gets Wired!


As many know, I'm a Fellow at the Woodhull Institute for Ethical Leadership. An exciting announcement: Woodhull and Dove's Campaign for Real Beauty have teamed up to offer "Real Women, Real Success Stories" . Over the next 16 weeks, Woodhull faculty and fellows will be teaching modules that are taught at the leadership retreats--online. Everything officially launched today, and you can get to it all by clicking here.

Congrats, Woodhull!

Stripping Pole Just Won't Go Away...


Ok, I'm on a roll this morning and really MUST get to work (um, paid work). But I just had to share this post from Jessica over at feministing, on some shoddy reporting about how feminism is responsible for the stripping poles some fraternities are apparently installing in their lust dens.

I saw over the weekend that my Guardian piece on why I hope the whole stripping pole business soon goes the way of the old charred bra was picked up by the Kuwait Times last week. Here's a tidbit from it - I wonder how this reads in Kuwait??:
What the burned bra was to the second wave, the stripping pole has become to the third - a bogey that distracts us from the far less sexy reality that feminism is, and always has been, serious work. It is time to stop deploying rigid and vapid cliches - damsel, good girl and slut - and fixating on the alleged excesses of one contested aspect. We need to keep our eyes on the wider array of women's issues. May the stripping pole go the way of the charred bra, a quaint reminder of how those calling it from the sidelines got it very wrong.

On Men, Abortion, and "Baby Daddys"

Two quick hits: Don't miss this important piece by Courtney Martin on why men should be included in the abortion debate, posted over at AlterNet last week, and this post by Lauren at Faux Real on the usefulness (or not) of the new slang term, "baby daddy."

Merci, mes amis!

A thousand thanks to everyone who came out on Friday night to my reading at Park Slope BN: mother/daughter teams Leslie and Clea Weber and Daph and Rena Uviller; father/daughter team Scott and Grace; Megan McKenna; Jean Casella; fellow Invisible Institute member Christine Kenneally; Susan Doherty; Iggy, all those I didn't know but asked awesome questions (including Marjory and Sam, in the back), Eryka Peskin from The Red Tent, and, of course, Marco (who promises he's not yet sick of my schpiel). Shout outs to Samantha for organizing it, and to the post-game crew for eating meat loaf and chocolate cake!

I was only sorry I wasn't able to make it back on Sat. morning for Lauren Bank Deen's reading for more on one of my favorite subjects: food. Congrats on Kitchen Playdates, Lauren, and those of you with kids, definitely check it out! Lauren was on The Today Show today, and for those who missed it, there's a piece by her today on MSNBC.

Stalled Progress for Women Who Think


Turns out the New Yorker's Shouts and Murmurs isn't the only place women aren't being published. Just came upon this uplifting little tidbit, via Inside Higher Ed, about a paper by MIT philosophy professor Sally Haslanger on the limits of progress for women in philosophy. The paper won’t appear until next year, in the journal Hypatia, but Haslanger posted a version of it online and it's attracting considerable attention. (Total non sequitor: I will always have a soft spot for Hypatia. They published my first academic article, as part of their special "third wave feminism" issue back in 1997.)

Here's the scoop:
Haslanger studied the gender breakdowns in the top 20 departments (based on The Philosophical Gourmet Report) and found that the percentage of women in tenure track positions was 18.7 percent, with two departments under 10 percent. She also looked at who published in top philosophy journals for the last five years and found that only 12.36 percent of articles were by women.
As Inside Higher Ed goes on to note, "While Haslanger hasn’t made formal proposals for reform, in her essay and in the interview, she spoke of the importance of ensuring that women receive equal treatment through blind review of journal submissions and that 'efforts ought to be made to make sure women aren’t solo in graduate programs.'”

Interesting discussion going on about it all over at Crooked Timber, an academic group blog I just discovered.

Sunday, September 9, 2007

Science, She Wrote



This is cool: At Rutgers, the Office of Promotion of Women in Science, Engineering and Mathematics has created a Girl Geeks / My Story website, where female faculty get personal and fess up about why they became scientists. The pic is of a young Joanna Burger, now a professor in the Department of Cell Biology & Neuroscience, pictured with a gull chick. Aw.

Keep an eye out for girl geek Debby Carr's story, which I believe be up there soon. Debby is a sociologist and a friend of mine from my Madison days. Her first "crossover" book comes out this spring. It's about generational conflict among mothers and daughters who make different choices around careers, kids, and, well, life, and when the time comes, I'll blog bout it here! As may Debby, too.

Friday, September 7, 2007

Jack Scrolls Down


In a departure from our usual fare, I'm taking a moment to pay homage to a writer my guy Marco adores: Jack Kerouac. It's the 50th anniversary of the publication of On the Road. (To Marco's credit, he's equally obsessed by the writings of the Beat women -- Hettie, Joyce, and Diane -- go Beat girls!) Check out my dude's post today over at his blog, Hokum. You won't think of "scrolling" the same way again.

I'm Reading Tonight at Park Slope BN!


Please come say hello tonight if you happen to be in Brooklyn! Thanks to the karaoke-wielding Sam, I'll be reading from and talking about Sisterhood, Interrupted at Barnes and Noble in Park Slope (267 7th Avenue) at 7pm. (Note: there will be no karaoke, just lots and lots of books.)

Marco and I are considering moving to the Slope eventually, so I'm going to pretend this is my neighborhood bookstore and see how it feels.

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Correction! Charleston...

One lil clarification regarding info in the mammoth newsletter just sent out: Sisterhood, Interrupted is being promoted by the Women's and Gender Studies Program at the College of Charleston (not the city, the college!) as the official "book group book" for Women's History Month. (Thank you, Alison!)

Announcing Fall Webinar: MAKING IT POP

Back by popular demand :)

MAKING IT POP: Translating Your Ideas for Trade, with Deborah Siegel (er, me)

Tuesdays 11/6, 11/13, 11/20, 11/27, 12/4, 12/11
8:00 - 9:15 pm ET
Format: Online forum + weekly conference call
Fee: $250 ($275 after Oct. 19)

Public debate lacks a sensitive discussion of the complex forces shaping the lives of women and girls. Researchers, nonprofit workers, and savvy writers everywhere have the opportunity to frame public debate about these issues. Too often, however, important work fails to reach an audience outside the academic and advocacy worlds. Writing a trade book is one way to join the debate. To sell a book in today's competitive publishing climate, one must be able to write engaging, accessible prose that will appeal to a wide audience. These skills can be learned.

Participants will learn from exchanges with New York City-based agents and editors why it's essential to think about audience and market in a different way, and why you need a book proposal. We'll explore the differences between popular and academic writing, why a dissertation or a monograph is not a trade book, and how to write an effective book proposal-meaning one that has the best chance of being sold. We'll also consider the latest aspects of book publicity, focusing in particular on new media. (See what past participants are saying about the course here.)

Space is limited. Please send a note describing your rough idea for a popular book in 1 paragraph to deborahsiege (at) gmail (dot) com, and I will be in touch with further details.

Read more about MAKING IT POP in Women's eNews:
Women's Studies Scholars Vie for More Media Turf

My bio is here.

In Memorium: Grace Paley


I met Grace Paley--activist, teacher, former state poet, feminist extraordinaire, lover of life--when she spoke on a panel I had organized in the early 1990s. I was in my early twenties. She seemed ageless. Grace Paley was magnificent, humble, and real.

Robin Morgan wrote a beautiful tribute to Paley's life, invoking Paley's signature style, for the Women's Media Center. The New York Times obituary is here. And, for those who have yet to have hear it and for those who already miss it, you can still listen to her voice here, on NPR.

Here are two of my favorites, from her New and Collected Poems:

1. My dissent is cheer / a thankless disposition / first as the morning star / my ambition: good luck / and why not a flight / over the wide dilemma / and then good night to sad forever.

2. A stranger calling a dog whistled / and I came running though I am not an afghan / or a highclass poodle and not much like a city boy's dog with a happy wild tail and red eyes / The stranger said excuse me, I was calling my dog not you / Ah I replied to this courteous explanation / Sometimes I whistle too but mostly for fear of missing the world I am a dog to whistlers.

We'll be whistling for you, Grace.

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Introducing the GWP Institute!


Ok ok, I know it's a fancypants name for a humble endeavor, but heck, I'm running with it. I mean, if the Tooth-fairy can have an institute....

So GWP Institute is going to be the new label for posts here that offer tips, advice, answers to reader questions, and news about workshops and online courses that I'll be offering over the next year.

To read older posts, just click on the "GWP Institute" category label on the right side of this blog (scroll down to get there).

Have a question about feminist-y publishing or popularizing academic-y ideas and prose that you'd like to see addressed here? Send 'em my way. I'm deborahsiege (at) gmail (dot) com.

(Does the Toothfairy have a blog?!)

Why I Heart the Feminist Carnival

Fire-eating ladies? Contortionists? Huh?!

For those of you as yet unfamiliar with the concept of a blog carnival, do run over and check out the 44th Carnival of Feminists over at Reproductive Rights Blog. It's one of the places I catch up on greatest hits, all wrapped up in an engaging, organized narrative. I'm all for aggregation.

For the newbies: The Carnival of Feminists is held (usually) on the first and third Wednesday of each month. Hosted by a different blogger for each edition, it aims to "showcase the finest feminist posts from around the blogsphere." Explains the illustrious Natalie Bennett, a British blogger who blogs at Philobiblon and runs the Carnival of Feminists:
The Carnival aims to build the profile of feminist blogging, to direct extra traffic to all participating bloggers, but particularly newer bloggers, and to build networks among feminist bloggers around the world....Posts that celebrate women's lives and contributions to society - either current-day or historical - are particularly welcome. Posts will usually have been made in the period since the last carnival. (Only one nomination per blog please.)

This week, Carnival host Cara focuses the current round-up on policy, economics and feminism. (Thank you, Cara, for all your hard work over there!)

Check out what The Guardian had to say about it all last year.

And for a big fat listing of other carnivals, go here.

The Professorial Entrepreneur


Does the idea of self-marketing make you nauseous? Try to get over it! Harsh words, I know, but I have to say, for authors in our DIY culture, I tend to agree.

The Chronicle of Higher Ed has an interesting piece out on entrepreneurship and academe. Writes Philip L. Leopold, an associate professor of genetic medicine at the Weill Cornell Medical College of Cornell University:
The entrepreneurial topic that academics are least likely to embrace might be the most important concept in their career: marketing.

To a professor, the term might carry connotations of profit motives and deceptive practices. Insomuch as marketing represents the dissemination of the product, professors should realize that marketing is an essential responsibility of their profession.
So true, especially when it comes to book promotion; publishing houses can only do so much, then they move on. The article puts it all in a larger, and interesting, context for those on an academic track. Read more here.

Guest Edit G2 Women's Pages for a Week


I heard it at The F-Word, where Jess McCabe writes:

The Guardian is running a competition to edit the Women section of G2 for a week. The competition celebrates the women's pages 50ths anniversary, and opened back in July (thanks Dollymix), but there are only a few short weeks to enter. If you're interested, head over to the Guardian pronto to get the full story. You'll need to pull together:

- Five ideas for articles that you would like to see featured on the women's pages, outlining each of them in no more than two paragraphs
- 500 words explaining why you would like to be women's editor and why you would be well suited to the role
- A one-page CV outlining any relevant experience

What an opportunity, huh?

GUEST POST: "Sex Does Not Define Us!"


I'm so pleased to start off the day with a guest post from Melinda Parrish, a 22-year old instructor in the English Department at the US Naval Academy. Melinda is based in the Writing Center. Here she is! -GWP


Wendy Shalit's new book, Girls Gone Mild, is the second in her legacy of literature, which includes numerous articles and online publications that preach abstinence to young girls as the best way to reclaim their feminine identity from the hedonistic, post-sexual revolution culture that currently holds it hostage. She claims that, "the plain fact is that girls today have to be 'bad' to fit in, just as the baby boomers needed to be good. And we are finding that this new script may be more oppressive than the old one ever was."

But, Wendy, by countering the sexual revolution with another sexual argument, are you not just perpetuating the cycle? Whether you're pro-abstinence or, well, easy, aren't you still allowing what happens to your “good girl” (wink) define the entire girl? Isn't THAT the biggest threat to the feminine identity of a young girl in modern society?

It makes me furious to think since the dawn of time, women have been defined primarily by their sex lives. I concede that in recent decades the values table has flip-flopped because of the sexual revolution and some young women may feel pressure towards promiscuity for social acceptance. But I don't regard Shalit's counter-argument as an enlightened or relevant one because it leads us back to where the feminists of the late sixties and early seventies started. Aren't we a sophisticated enough society to progress beyond this issue? Can't we find SOMETHING to focus on that doesn't reside between our thighs?

My plea to my fellow young women: stop making your vagina your defining characteristic! Don't let someone pigeon-hole you as a Madonna or a whore, or allow your life's happiness to rest solely on the success you achieve in bed; rather, devote your energy into developing your (other) physical, intellectual and artistic abilities to such a degree that your worth as a human being is undisputed, regardless of who you go to bed with!

(If you're interested in more of Shalit's work, check out her blog entitled, "Modestly Yours.")

Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Get Your Monthly Memoir Fix - Passion, Pleasure, Pain!

A quick announcement on behalf of my friend Lori, who is leading a juicy sounding monthly discussion group at the Barnard Center for Research on Women Courses this Fall.

CONSUMING PASSIONS: Pleasure & Politics in Women’s Memoirs, with Lori Rotskoff
Wednesdays, 9/26, 10/24, 11/28, 12/19, 1/23, 2/27, 3/26, 4/30, 6/4, 7:00 – 8:30 pm
BCRW, 101 Barnard Hall
Fee: $315

Here's the description:

What are the passions, pleasures, and political commitments that fuel women’s lives? In this class, we will discuss memoirs by American women who have embarked on journeys of personal fulfillment, intellectual growth, or political activism from the 1920s to the present day.

And here's more Lori:

Lori Rotskoff is a cultural historian of American family life. She holds a Ph.D. in American Studies from Yale University, and has written articles and reviews for the Chicago Tribune, Reviews in American History, and The Women’s Review of Books. This is her third year teaching at the Barnard Center for Research on Women.

For more information call 212-854-2067 or visit www.barnard.edu/bcrw

This Week's Guest Scholar-Blogger Posts

I've had a number of responses to my offer the other week and am delighted to post this week from an English prof at the Naval Academy and perhaps, in addition, a Duke historian. Stay tuned! (And if you'd like to participate as a Guest Scholar-Blogger, please take a look at the guidelines and then email me at deborahsiege AT gmail DOTCOM.)

Dads Taking Kids to First Day of School


To kick off the week, here are two nuggets on one of my latest favorite subjects: men.

By way of the Christian Science Monitor last week comes news of a push to bring dads into kids’ school lives. Around the country, many African-American men are embracing a national movement called the Million Father March that encourages people of all races, but particularly black men, to be active in children’s educational lives. Created four years ago, the Million Father March is sponsored by The Black Star Project, a Chicago group working to build strong students, encourage parental involvement, and improve life in African-American and Latino communities.

Meanwhile, back at home, married men do less housework than live-in boyfriends, finds an international survey. But married women do more housework than their live-in counterparts. "Marriage as an institution seems to have a traditionalizing effect on couples-even couples who see men and women as equal," said co-researcher Shannon Davis, a sociologist at George Mason University in Virginia. For more on this, click here.

(Thanks to via the Council on Contemporary Families for the heads up.)

The Times Gets Hip to Authors Promoting Books Online


Welcome back from a deliciously long weekend!

While this author was busy blissing out in the country (thank you, Daph, Sacha, and Rena!), then in New Jersey (thanks, Schettinos!), then in Prospect Park, the New York Times ran two interesting articles on how industrious authors are using blogs and social networking to promote their books. Check out Kara Jasella's informative article on the blog book tour (The Author Will Take Q's Now) and Pagan Kennedy's tongue-in-cheek back-page essay in yesterday's Book Review on MySpace (A Space for Us). I've blog toured a bit and will be sharing more of what I've learned soon.

Oh - and Girl with Pen made the Chronicle of Higher Education last week, broadcasting (via Broadsheet of course) that study about the lack of women "Shouts and Murmur" authors in The New Yorker. (Thank you for alerting me, Steve!) Funny how people there all assumed that the scholar who did the count was female. He wasn't.

Friday, August 31, 2007

Gone Fishing


These are my cousins, the Fisches. This is a pic from their canoe trip in the Boundary Waters (between Minnesota and Canada) this summer. Today, I am not fishing (nor fisching), but I am out in the country with my dear friend and collaborator Daphne. Wishin everyone a happy long weekend! I'll be back on Monday. Til then, be good :)

Thursday, August 30, 2007

Guardian post on "Third Wave" now up

Here it is, here. I'd like to note that the rest of the paragraph that ends with "shaving your legs" went like this, before it was cut AGAINST MY WISHES:
To Walker, "third wave" meant a feminism linked to her mother's, but different. It meant continuing and improving upon the best that second-wave feminism had to offer - grassroots activism and critique of the media, for instance - but still shaving your legs. It meant embracing multiculturalism, contradiction, and, if that’s what grooved you, proudly sporting a thong. Soon after Walker’s rallying cry, author/activists Jennifer Baumgardner and Amy Richards published their book, ManifestA, which provided analysis and strategy for the young women now poised to carry the torch. This was a propitious moment.
Just sayin. I did not want them to end with "shaving your legs" when there was so much more substance to the graf.

I Heart Jewesses with Attitude

I just discovered this amazing blog, Jewesses with Attitude. Judith Rosenbaum, Director of Education at the Jewish Women's Archive, is a Jewess this Jewess would love to meet. Ok, Judith posted a lovely review over there, but that's not the only reason I want to meet her. I swear. She sounds pretty amazing. Definitely check out the blog.

Lunch with Alison and Walter


I think I just made a new friend. I've met (and adore) Alison Peipmeier, but Marco and I just met her blogging and real-life partner, Walter. They live in South Carolina. Walter, upon learning that Marco is a graphic designer, posed to him the artistic challenge of the century: "Hey, can you design a butthole [sic] out of the Confederate flag?"

The backstory (sorry, bad pun), straight outa Wikipedia is this:
Originally placed [on top of the South Carolina State House dome] in 1962....[c]urrent state law prohibits the flag's removal from the State House grounds without additional legislation. Police were placed to guard the flag after several attempts by individuals to remove it....In 2005, two Western Carolina University researchers found that 74% of African-Americans polled favored removing the flag from the South Carolina State House altogether. The NAACP and other civil rights groups have attacked the flag's continued presence at the state capitol. The NAACP maintains an official boycott of South Carolina, citing its continued display of the battle flag on its State House grounds, despite an initial agreement to call off the boycott after it was removed from the State House dome.

I heart Walter. Nuf said.

Two Upcoming "Appearances"


1. A piece I wrote for the Guardian goes live tomorrow. Stripping poles, charred bras, third-wave feminism, fourth waves, and more. Plus, a photo of me that I haven't yet seen. Let me know what you think. (Not about the photo, thank you, but the article!)

2. Come say hello next week if you're in Brooklyn! I'll be reading from Sisterhood, Interrupted at Barnes and Noble in Park Slope on Friday, Sept. 7 at 7pm. (Thank you, Sam! Karaoke, when?!) Come for discussion, come to say hi, or, come for chocolate. I recently learned there's this place down the block, called Cocoa Bar, that has rather stellar chocolate cake.